Funny old world.
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Yes, France, it is unfortunate that some psyche's are fragile and succumb to the abuse that you can find online from those with less than scrupulous intentions. Personally, I haven't had many bad experiences with FB but I can see where that could happen. I'm not a collector of friends, I can count my good friends on a hand or two and am a very private individual. I dislike those that want to accumulate 'friendships' and as much as I appreciate a 'friend request' I'm very choosy of whom I let in to my life. I don't like to ignore those requests but I guess my privacy is more important to me. I stay in contact with my college buddies, my family overseas and out of State, and a few long lost high school friends who were close and I lost contact with over the years.
Where I do resent FB is when someone requests to be my friend and I accept that request and they ''voyeur" on my activities for a while and then exit out as quickly as they came. This happened to me a few years ago - a close family friend who lives overseas. I'm not one to post photos of my cat, my dinner menu, my religious beliefs or any other type of rant (and I don't overuse the 'like' button) so it surprised me when he exited so soon after sending that request. It was a 'what in the hell did I ever do to you' moment but I was strong enough to brush it off. I think he was interested in my life, didn't find out what he wanted to know and moved on. The other thing that I resent is those people that want to be your 'friend' on the internet only but have no time for you in real life.
As for your take Scout dahling, it sounds as if you're quite mature for your 51 years of age. I wasn't aiming to hit a nerve and I'm happy that you've had a bountiful yield. I'm sure I'd like you in person even if you grate on my nerves from time to time on this forum
Where I do resent FB is when someone requests to be my friend and I accept that request and they ''voyeur" on my activities for a while and then exit out as quickly as they came. This happened to me a few years ago - a close family friend who lives overseas. I'm not one to post photos of my cat, my dinner menu, my religious beliefs or any other type of rant (and I don't overuse the 'like' button) so it surprised me when he exited so soon after sending that request. It was a 'what in the hell did I ever do to you' moment but I was strong enough to brush it off. I think he was interested in my life, didn't find out what he wanted to know and moved on. The other thing that I resent is those people that want to be your 'friend' on the internet only but have no time for you in real life.
As for your take Scout dahling, it sounds as if you're quite mature for your 51 years of age. I wasn't aiming to hit a nerve and I'm happy that you've had a bountiful yield. I'm sure I'd like you in person even if you grate on my nerves from time to time on this forum
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Personally I don't accept either interpretation of FB and I'll tell you why. I use it maybe a half dozen times a year between family, relatives or close friends; i.e., people I already know or have known and that's it. Without making this too personal, I initially setup an account long ago so that my youngest son could contact me. It was very important. From that initial reason I subsequently was contacted by several very close friends that I grew up with, spent time in the service with or had previously worked with. When a good friend was deployed his wife contacted me through FB. It helped her greatly to know I was there. So it hasn't been a negative experience for me. I use it as an adult for adult reasons and I haven't had one problem. So with that I say you reap what you sew in life and I've had a bountiful yield. I've been all over the world and have gained and lost many contacts over my lifetime. With this account I've regained some of what I've lost over my fifty one years and I hope it keeps returning on the investment. To each their own........
I knew exactly what I was posting and why and the only time I troll is in a Boston Whaler for Whitefish or Lake Trout. I'll skip all the rest..........
I knew exactly what I was posting and why and the only time I troll is in a Boston Whaler for Whitefish or Lake Trout. I'll skip all the rest..........
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Everyone I am friends with on Facebook I know personally, a couple of groups I dont know everyone but I know people who know them. That said I have never met face to face with any one on this forum. I spoke with Disco Mike on on the phone once or twice.
However; I have communicated with some people on here that have helped me and I hope I have helped them .
If you have issues on fb you are not manageing as I do. I never let too many ''acquaintances'' as friends. Mainly close friends and family. I'm not on much but when we travel it is a good way to stay in touch with family and close Close friends.
Anonymous is easier but keep in touch with people who care.
Im sure several of us could be friends if we met.
However; I have communicated with some people on here that have helped me and I hope I have helped them .
If you have issues on fb you are not manageing as I do. I never let too many ''acquaintances'' as friends. Mainly close friends and family. I'm not on much but when we travel it is a good way to stay in touch with family and close Close friends.
Anonymous is easier but keep in touch with people who care.
Im sure several of us could be friends if we met.
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lol... I have to laugh at this conversation. How do people trust anymore in today's society? We're all talking about 'close Close' friendships that we developed in years past. Do we lose the ability to develop close friendships once we hit the age 40? How do people trust today? What made us so open to relationships when we were younger but now we're so skeptical? Is it due to the news, media, paranoia, or common sense? How does one become a close friend in today's day and age? Common experiences, interests, chance encounters, divine intervention? If I was to look back on how I met my closest friends I'd have to say that it was 'growing up together', being thrown into a similar situation (University, work, etc.) or common interests (playing violin, art, etc.) So I ask you forum members.. is there a point where our friend list becomes saturated and we cannot add any more? Do we become too cynical as we get older? Do we stick with what is comfortable or step outside of the box? Too deep for this thread?
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Dusty, without a doubt if I had FB I would defo add you to my Friends, I just love your sardonic humour, seriously, which absolutely 'slays' me on many occasions, but of course though, I have to make special allowances as you are a 'YanK'
PS. What does 'Meh' mean?
PS. What does 'Meh' mean?
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