I've got the same el-cheapo spacers from EZAccessories and no problems. Maybe you got a bad set? You could always try contacting the company....

D1 spares are lug-centric, just looked at one last night.

 

I know I got the link from you. I did send them a message on ebay The tech that helped me yesterday said they were not true Yeah I got the ones that weren't just right! I will say after they fiddled with the one it is noticeable better He said that 2 of them were off, the right front and the left rear
I think the problem was in the install You have to get them as close to center as possible to begin with

Im going to take off the rear one and adjust as soon as I can

 

Maybe the shop could balance the wheels/tires with lug-centric adapters if that's how you've got the wheels mounted. Not all shops have the adapters, so you might have to call around. Something kind of like this: Universal Lug Adapter-Wheel Balancer-Derek Weaver Co., Inc.

 

Interesting but its the spacer that is lug centric. The wheel is hub centric. How would that work? Bolt the spacer to the wheel, then balance?