Try this place, they are in the UK but they have a lot of good stuff..

VWP - relay sockets

 

That is what I am looking for....(for a decent price)


Here is a close pic to the fuse box and the relay plugs i used.

 

waytek, and digikey somewhat, sell stuff like those terminal blocks for cheap. none of them are waterproof per-se...
im sure with enough dielectric globbed on there it shouldnt be an issue. i suppose if standing water is up there for long enough then thered be other problems

maybe i should just stop worrying about it :P