I tries to plug my iPhone into the USB ports in the center console, but the standard Apple lightning cable doesn't fit. Seems to need a different USB cable?? If so where do I get one?

Also it seems that is what is needed for CarPlay (if the software has been loaded).

 

You should be able to use the charging cable that came with your iPhone or similar.

Make sure you're not trying to plug the USB into the HDMI port right next to it.

 

 

Car end is standard USB connector. The lightning end is the phone end of the cable.