Playing devil's advocate here, but it appears you posted in his visitors messages instead of actually sending him a message. I don't know it users get a notification when that happens (I don't think so, if I remember correctly), and I don't know if you actually sent him a private message or not. Just throwing that out there.

 

Considering there was no malice on my side but poor communication, and a refund has been given, can this thread be deleted and removed? It's done and over with. I apologize to OP.

 

I recently sold an item to Jnj and he was a pleasure to deal with and hassle free.

I know it's not the same, but I believe he is a stand up guy.

 

I also sold him some parts and I got the same impression.