I have 2 96s and I'm really just learning, so I wouldn't be able to help you(distributors scare me!). Glad you are getting some help from some of the pros.

 

Women don't count. They're completely irrational regardless of age.

To the OP. There's usually a reason threads don't get answered. Sometimes the original post is too long or wordy, sometimes it is poorly worded and unclear what you're asking, and sometimes people just don't have any experience with the problem you're experiencing.
I won't be responding to your temper tantrum post, and I'm certainly not going to search to help someone who comes across so douchey. You're too old to be stomping your feet. Now take your ball and go home.