Wow, what a pain. Thanks for all the suggestions. Pulled the front headliner down and left it for a few days, drove it and left it again. finally found the leak. Even after I duct-taped the sunroof shut...after siliconing it I was getting a nice steady leak though the front sunroof motor.
As it's winter, i'm not taking the entire thing apart right now but at least I know where it is. I sealed the sunroof with another layer of duct tape and then sprayed the entire area with spray-on rubber sealant to make sure I got all the cracks.
Pretty Ghetto job but at least it'll keep the rain out.

funny enough the drain hoses and little drain mounts that are what causes most probables where all in great shape.

 

And keep your feet dry till warmer weather.

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